tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post3095131909872706789..comments2024-03-12T14:43:01.539-06:00Comments on Asystole is the Most Stable Rhythm: Nothing ProfoundAlbinoblackbearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15222730484450544498noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-19246169349744608492014-11-15T17:41:13.266-06:002014-11-15T17:41:13.266-06:00Hey ABB, like many of the other commenters, I have...Hey ABB, like many of the other commenters, I have been reading your blog for years (I found you through an episode of White Coat Black Art when I was trying to decide if I should pursue med school in Ireland). Now that I'm (finally) a med student at UBC, I still love your blog because it's so real. The highs are real, the lows are real, and you have brought me and the other readers along on your spectacular journey. <br />So often you hear physicians (especially if they are trying to recruit you to their specialty) say that they have the Best Job in The World. Maybe, but I sort of call bullshit. It can be an amazing job, but it can also be shite and the process to get there is filled with lots of pot holes and insecurities (along with the amazing people and wonderful detours). Thank you for adding to my perspective on this journey. And best of luck to you :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02259603904878312666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-91614567606564267972014-11-13T05:45:14.510-06:002014-11-13T05:45:14.510-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.way2 collegehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15002354364018973597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-90989177898583317162014-11-11T11:36:22.731-06:002014-11-11T11:36:22.731-06:00I am envious of you going through these decisions...I am envious of you going through these decisions and self-evaluations. I wish I was young enough to go through them all again. I can also say "ditto" to the love fest given from your other readers.Jonohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18170214396483091419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-91547878468061385632014-11-10T10:23:21.094-06:002014-11-10T10:23:21.094-06:00Like many of your other commenters, I've been ...Like many of your other commenters, I've been reading your blog for a long time. I needed to read this today - not because I'm happy you're struggling, of course, but because I've always admired your motivation and passion for your work, and I've been feeling so discouraged with my own career lately. I'm a very new lawyer, working in a smaller community, and constantly second-guessing my area of practice, my location, and law itself. I worry I've made a huge mistake. <br /><br />It helps to know the beginning can be bumpy for others, too. Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07842890893365738906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-21765021431842830982014-11-08T13:13:40.333-06:002014-11-08T13:13:40.333-06:00So nice you posted - and please don't worry.....So nice you posted - and please don't worry.... your faithful minions will always stick around :-). Molts of love from Copenhagen, Denmark NurseJanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06953708971463181981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-24107812280807940192014-11-07T21:42:26.560-06:002014-11-07T21:42:26.560-06:00Thank you for writing again. It is somehow always ...Thank you for writing again. It is somehow always good to read what you have in your mind. <br /><br />I really want to work on the person I want to become at the end of this journey. Thank you for giving words to basically what I have been trying and hence validating it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-84912807812441041252014-11-06T23:15:38.879-06:002014-11-06T23:15:38.879-06:00I am actually just overwhelmed at the genuinely lo...I am actually just overwhelmed at the genuinely lovely and thoughtful comments. <br /><br />I remember sort of starting with one squinty eye, face turned to the side, every time I got a comment in the old days because it seemed there were so many trolls just wanting to shred anything I wrote. <br /><br />David I am so envious of your migration pattern! I wish I could do the same ! Hahah I had a good laugh at your "If it doesn't work out for you the rest of us are probably doomed" comment. I'll take that as the highest compliment. <br /><br />Really though, thanks to everyone for taking the time to read and comment and to stick with the blog despite my pathetically intermittant instalments of late. Albinoblackbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222730484450544498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-32282316599240103872014-11-06T18:16:58.010-06:002014-11-06T18:16:58.010-06:00I have been reading your blog since way before you...I have been reading your blog since way before you started medical school as well. You were enjoying nursing and dreaming of being a rural doctor. My blog has since gone by the wayside simply because I can't fathom that anyone would be interested in what I have to say.<br /><br />You have found a place in our hearts, ABB. Please enjoy life, settle into your place in this world and maybe one day you'll pull out these memories and smile. We'll be waiting when you chose to start writing again.Fordohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375331228482241067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-45697414752665669572014-11-05T13:47:19.788-06:002014-11-05T13:47:19.788-06:00I read your blog for many reasons
It stops me beco...I read your blog for many reasons<br />It stops me becoming cynical and reminds me why I went into medicine in the first place.<br />It is an insight into the struggles faced by my colleagues who are at a more vulnerable stage in their career.<br />As an emigrating surgeon who worked in Limerick and is headed for New Zealand it is both a reminder of home and a primer for adopting a new country.<br />It is well written, thought provoking funny and honest.<br /><br /><br />In response to this post - You don't have to be brilliant in every post - I think from reading the comments a lot of your readers feel a connection and like to hear things are going okay for you. After all if it doesn't work out for you the rest of us are probably doomed.<br /><br />Regarding your choice - this job is tough enough, make sure you end up doing something you will enjoy day in day out for the next couple of decades. Do the training and find your niche - You might have to move but you will be happy where ever you move. If you are tied to a particular place and doing a job you didn't want to do you will always regret it especially if you're the sort of person to go back to medicine after qualifying as a Nurse.<br /><br />My sincere best wishes and I eagerly await your next post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17340509202067331699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-90658321130187429462014-11-05T13:41:32.114-06:002014-11-05T13:41:32.114-06:00So, so glad to read a new post from you - such a d...So, so glad to read a new post from you - such a deeply honest post at that. Thank you very much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-32478429988368914942014-11-05T12:57:42.416-06:002014-11-05T12:57:42.416-06:00I had read every single page of your blog. And I h...I had read every single page of your blog. And I had reread many of them because they were so beautiful.<br />Please continue being yourself and care less about who comes here to read and why. You have got a great story telling talent and you are so good in narrating. Any topic you post is highly appreciated. <br />Good luck with your board. <br />Thank you. <br /><br />"Don't lose yourself in medicine, make sure you like the person you become at the end of it."<br />Amenpeacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15254289560180340388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-29684325393821047792014-11-04T22:16:04.609-06:002014-11-04T22:16:04.609-06:00Good to hear from you.Good to hear from you.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08570738729131361529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-65364466132779059112014-11-04T20:39:05.432-06:002014-11-04T20:39:05.432-06:00PgyX- Nice to hear from you, and as always I enjoy...PgyX- Nice to hear from you, and as always I enjoy your perspective and thoughts on important matters. I think your colleague made some excellent points and I hope, pray, dream to someday feel like balance is attainable. <br /><br />And yes - I think writing things down at the time and publishing later is a wise idea. <br /><br />Christie - Thank you for that. I often erase my grumpy posts but then regret it as I feel we are in such a Fake Face Book reality that no one really realises that people actually do struggle and have difficulties. People will always tell you medicine is a tough road but few people will tell you why. <br /><br />I used to be really resentful of those that tried to discourage me from going into medicine. Now I see that if someone caught me on the wrong day I'd probably say many of the same things. I am not as true and honest as I could be on this blog, but I hope it gives somewhat of an accurate insight into the trials and tribulations (and rewards!) of this path. <br /><br />Good luck on your journey!!<br /><br />Albinoblackbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222730484450544498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-72594303422838070142014-11-04T20:27:34.026-06:002014-11-04T20:27:34.026-06:00Thanks for an update. I am a early 30s female tryi...Thanks for an update. I am a early 30s female trying to get into medicine. It's helpful for me to see the good and real of medicine by reading about experiences such as yours.<br /><br />You don't need to write about earth shattering experiences to have my attention. You're doing a great job. I think we all understand how life is too busy to do a million things at once. As I'm sure you've learned, sometimes you have to choose a few things to invest your time in, and say "no" to the others. Remember to say "yes" to some things you enjoy as part of that!<br /><br />Thank you for your posts, and I'll be ready to read more whenever you're next inspired. Stay well (and warm, by the looks of the snow!)!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18001305549525561420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-24862915425560783142014-11-04T20:01:03.250-06:002014-11-04T20:01:03.250-06:00May I suggest you write posts and then save them f...May I suggest you write posts and then save them for later editing / de-identification and publication? That way you can write about a patient you saw "yesterday" several months or years ago. <br /><br />As always, I admire your tenacity and can empathize with the ongoing thought spiral you describe. I've concluded that working in the current medical system can be more challenging for a thoughtful, conscientious person. <br /><br />That said, your enthusiasm for your work is second to none. A wise friend and colleague recently wrote to me, "Happy doctors seem to be as diverse as people. Some are very religious. Some don't really care much about their patients. Some enjoy the consistency of their work. Some love the lack of consistency. Some really focus on the money. The ones I admire the most are those who have developed a detached compassion for the patients and simply find balance. Doctors who think too much generally aren't happy, or they go more into teaching." I think there is a lot of truth to his words. <br /><br />Wholeheartedly agree with Wren that you're an excellent writer!PGYxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04326999545370162455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-72869847764170494652014-11-04T19:50:45.033-06:002014-11-04T19:50:45.033-06:00Thank you for your thoughts and kind words, Wren. ...Thank you for your thoughts and kind words, Wren. Really appreciate it. Albinoblackbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222730484450544498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3138625163039637769.post-33478141025017652092014-11-04T18:07:07.569-06:002014-11-04T18:07:07.569-06:00I've been reading your blog since before you s...I've been reading your blog since before you started medical school, and I've kept reading because I'm fascinated with your story providing rural healthcare in remote places--such a vital thing!--and the challenges you've met along the way as you've pursued your dream. You're an excellent writer. You've made it easy to laugh--and cry--along with you.<br /><br />I've missed your posts since you returned to Canada, but I do understand how life simply becomes so intense--and not always in an exciting, noteworthy way--that blogging about it is hard. I'm glad to hear from you today. Rest assured that you still have at least one reader that cares about you and your journey.L."Wren" Vandeverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03587456557210335403noreply@blogger.com